CAM LOVE DOCTOR: What campus dudes love in every campus babe
Some babes are irresistible; everywhere they go they are adored by dudes, treated like angels and wanted by every dude. Never the less, some are the direct opposite, the only reason a man would want them is for their centre region and when he’s done there, he’s out, never to come back except he’s bored again.
Do not be deceived; two things that would bring a man to you but won’t keep him with you are sex and beauty. They are not just enough; when he’s had enough sex and seen your beautiful face a million times, what’s next? Some women are extremely beautiful, you could call them a goddess but that’s that about them; they are loved from afar but hated when you get to know them.
Most women don’t know what would keep their man; they think it’s only about sex and beauty. Some things are way more important than that. There are a million special things a man can love in a woman, but I bring you 8 very important things that a guy would cherish in a lady.
1. A GOOD SMILE
There is nothing like an ever smiling lady; nothing would melt the heart of a man more than a woman who’s generous in her smiling. These smiles are like diamonds, they make the beauty of a woman sparkle. A lady that smiles often is thought by many as one with a good heart.
2. A GOOD LISTENER
Some ladies are blessed with this gift, yes I call it a gift because it’s rare; most women are more into complaining than listening to their man (and those complaints could drive men nuts). Alcohol is a man’s best friend when his lady is one that complains too much. Bars and pubs are places a man go to share his thoughts with himself or probably friends. But when he has a lady that has a good heart to listen to him, he’d be home with her rather than in a bar. Men always have issues to overcome and they would cherish a woman who would always be there to listen.
3. A LITTLE INDEPENDENT
Gone are those days when men value women that depend on them for everything, definitely not the modern man. The modern man loves a woman who can pay one or two bills, have a little financial capability not the one that’s always asking; the type that would ask for everything from A-Z. Show him you too can come up with some goods and he’d value you even more.
This is something that’s lacking in many relationships these days, some women are more like lions waiting for the slightest moment to roar and pounce on its victim. Truth is, a respectful woman would win a man’s heart with ease. A woman who wants respect from her man should be ready to give him respect too. But beware, respect doesn’t mean ignorance; like I said in should I go back to my ex, any man who hits you doesn’t value you.
5. GOOD COMPANY
Every guy loves a lady that can be a good company; some ladies are a total bore, besides sex there is nothing fun about them anymore. If a man doesn’t want to be with you after sex, it means you make for bad company. Try to create that special rapport with your man so when he’s not with you, he’d miss every bit of you.
These days, it’s hard to see an original lady; most of them fake everything about them. Faking your real identity would only keep a man for the short-term. Once he’s had enough, he’s out. There is nothing like an original woman, she’s real and a joy to be with. When a lady is original, a guy would give so many weird reasons why he likes her; that’s because she’s unique. You may hear statements like ‘’I just like the way she talks’’. Be original.
7. A GOOD COOK
Some might say ‘’we are in the 21st century, this doesn’t matter’’ but the truth is there is nothing like a good home-made meal and when it’s prepared by you, your man would even love you more. One funny fact about men is that they don’t joke with their tummy, if you give them good food, they would appreciate you real good. Let’s take a stroll to the university settings, ever wondered why the ladies that cook really tasty meals have so many male friends. The answer is simple; be a GOOD COOK.
8. BE THANKFUL
Generally, in life setting, anyone that’s thankful for everything no matter how little is loved by many. Most ladies these days have their eyes on big things that they don’t appreciate the little their man does for them. Every man, I repeat, every man would love and cherish a lady that appreciates everything he does for her no matter how little. If you do this, you’d take a massive part of his heart.
Hope you enjoyed this piece, but note that it’s not just enough to read this; you have to act on it. I wish you the best in your relationship.
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